It’s not surprising that another member of our family went to another country to seek greener pastures for her family. With economic turnaround that is felt even in our city, more and more people will now take their chances by working overseas.
I can’t blame her or them. I myself wished of working abroad too. No opportunities yet but I definitely have plans. I love this country and loved living in it, just like any OFW. In my youth, I have declared that I would not get out of this country except to spend vacations. When I became an adult, many of my plans changed and although I remained patriotic, I changed into something more practical. Somewhat gone was the dreamy and idealistic girl I used to be with.
I can’t blame her or them. I myself wished of working abroad too. No opportunities yet but I definitely have plans. I love this country and loved living in it, just like any OFW. In my youth, I have declared that I would not get out of this country except to spend vacations. When I became an adult, many of my plans changed and although I remained patriotic, I changed into something more practical. Somewhat gone was the dreamy and idealistic girl I used to be with.
I was sad for my brother because her wife left him for Brunei. I was worried about him because it’s the first time he lived life without my ate by her side. Getting that luggage off to Brunei was a hard decision for both of them especially since it’s nearing Christmas and they have not spent any holiday apart. I pray sincerely that this big leap would solidify their marriage and would uplift their financial conditions.
I can just imagine how sad and how painful it is to be far from the people close to your heart even for a day, much more for years. I admire every OFW who bear this kind of sacrifice. For every mother and father who left their children and spouse at home for economic stability, I salute you. I hope this Christmas would bring joy in every way it can to relieve your homesickness and to help you become more stronger until you’re bound for home. Until then…
I can just imagine how sad and how painful it is to be far from the people close to your heart even for a day, much more for years. I admire every OFW who bear this kind of sacrifice. For every mother and father who left their children and spouse at home for economic stability, I salute you. I hope this Christmas would bring joy in every way it can to relieve your homesickness and to help you become more stronger until you’re bound for home. Until then…
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#1 by Bon and Jeff Galicia on December 11th, 2008
OH!! That’s too sad. It’s really hard not to be with your loved ones. In my case, my husband has a very demanding job he goes home late at night, it even makes me sad & missed him so much, how much ore if it’s too far and would take years?
May their temporary separation strengthens their love and trust to each other. Thought it’s you na leaving to Brunei. hehehhehe
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#2 by mhel on December 12th, 2008
True! That’s the hardest sacrifice one has to bear, parting with family. Ugh!
“May their temporary separation strengthens their love and trust to each other. Thought it’s you na leaving to Brunei. hehehhehe”
Oh yeah, i hope so too
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