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On Parenting: Boosting Child’s Confidence

As a parent, we should always model strength to our children so they would not feel weak and remain motivated. What always break a parent’s heart is learning that your child is being demean by other people.

The other day, while chatting nonchalantly with my only son, he innocently blurted that he’s ugly. I said this to make him feel better: “of course not, isn’t it you look after Mama so you’re not ugly cause I’m not.” He replied, “my classmate said so.”

My son developed an obvious case of skin asthma where white spots and rashes took over his entire face. The derma said the disease is similar to eczema and does look like one so it’s definitely not a pretty sight on his face. with the creams and ointments we applied, the rashes are all gone but the white spots remained and the derma said it will take months or even years before the scars or the spots fade.

At first, I thought my son is not bothered by this. He seemed unfazed by the mockery he gets from mean people but apparently, it is affecting him. His confidence is melting down as his classmates and others tease him about his spots. I feel so bad about this and I almost cried in front of him. I composed myself and said: “Don’t mind them son. Just tell them the spots will be gone in no time. It’s bad to tease other people about their weaknesses or their looks and you should not do that to others too.”
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A Valentine’s Gift Suggestion for Men

Feeling love in the air already? It’s two weeks more before the big day for lovers and those in-love.

No matter how commercialized valentines day is all over the world, and most especially here in the Philippines, no one can detest the fact that lovers and those wishing for love put high regard on this sweet and romantic day.

Would you agree with me that it’s hard to buy men gifts than women? Well, that truth goes to me and baffles me every time I have to buy my lovey-dovey a gift. If you are in this position today and wondering what valentine’s gift to give for for your man this February 14 and you have the budget to make him happy, I may have just the perfect suggestion for you!
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2010 Special Treats

Let me start the year by sharing with you my way of welcoming the 2010. :D

First stop — indulgence on a much-needed luxury — a spa treat!

After going to SM Marikina to lodge my complaints against Globelines services, I decided to hit another mall since SM department store was not open on January 1. I went to my next favorite mall — the Robinsons Metro East. By this time, I have already decided I wanted a whole body massage so I roam around the beauty and wellness centers at the third level.

Since I already tried Relaksasi Spa a year ago and thought it’s expensive for an ordinary spa service, I looked for another one and found a quite new beauty center named Skin Natural which offers an hour of whole body massage with free use of Dome for only P450. Sounds interesting and reasonably priced so I booked myself in and enjoyed the rest of the spa treat. :D

skin natural spa robinsons metro east
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How to Identify a Happily Married Couple?

“Happiness is like intelligence, if you have it, it shows.”

This is what I realized when I attended the wedding of a good friend yesterday, Neil and his wife, Niel. I would never miss their wedding because Neil is the one responsible for my entrance to the blogosphere. He was patient in teaching me the technicalities of website development, even if at times, I was such a sour student.

Neil and Niel are no doubt, a happy couple. Look at the evidences of this statement:

neilwedding
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Loving “Who You Are”

Usually, I’m a confident person. I have long ago learned full acceptance of what I have and what I don’t which meant I have learned to love my strenghts and my good sides, as well as my flaws. I am referring to my physical, mental, and even social attributes.

If there’s one thing I am thankful for, it is the fact that God created me healthy and complete — no damaged or missing parts, and not sickly. My flaws, if you would call them that way, was being ordinary looking, fat, and poor. In my childhood, I was the girl who was likeable because I was funny and a little “smart” but that’s all. No outstanding character traits, no reason to be popular. I was known to some, unknown to most.

The good thing about having flaws and being plain-looking, is you develop some sort of humility and the will to prove yourself. Because of this, I strived to study hard and do good in finding a career for myself. It took me some time but when I did, It was all worth it. The journey was long and tough, but the experiences were humbling. In the end, I am thankful that I wasn’t the sheltered, pretty girl who has, and can get everything easily. Because of this, I was trained to bear and overcome poverty, pain, and challenges without losing my ground. I am a survivor in my own right.
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Any Health Plan for a Stressed Lifestyle?

What’s the effect of stress in your life?

Ironically, instead of losing weight because of my strenous schedule, I am apparently gaining more :( Sad, really. The reverse side effect was brought by my eating late dinners since my classes ends at nine in the evening. By this time, I’m totally famish and you can just imagine how mad I am at the sight of food.

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Apology for the Long Hiatus

For a long week, I wasn’t able to post new articles in Marikenya.com and for this, I sincerely apologize.

My days were extremely busy and I would like to share with you some of the things that occupied my waking, and even, my supposedly sleeping hours. It is midterm week and since I’m teaching two major subjects in college, it was major preparation — preparing the questionnaires, administering the exam and checking the test papers.

My day job also required me to finish major assignments and one of them, I am happy to announce, would be hitting the streets of Marikina soon, but let’s hush about it for now because I don’t want to preempt the project. On a positive note, I was again invited by MMA Media Inc., organizer of the Ten Outstanding Young Employees of Marikina City (TOYEM), for a “Gabi ng Parangal” for their tenth year anniversary as one of their past awardees way back in year 2003. The night was very glamorous and I was too shy to walk on the runway when my name was called but I obliged of course. :)

I was also busy with my speaking engagements with the foundation, FFICI, where I serve as a resource person. We already finished our projects in Cebu and Antipolo City and this weekend, we’ll be hitting the suburbs of Roxas City. I’d be busier in the next days as I need to prepare my presentations.

On the lighter side, I spent a day in Bustos, Bulacan, with my husband’s clan reunion. It was an enjoyable day and my son loved everything except not winning the parlor games. Last Friday too, I was a proud Momma because my son played the role of our hero, Dr. Jose Rizal, in a school presentation for the Linggo ng Wika. My mother-in-law made him his Rizal costume and I bought him his Rizal hat which turned out to be a comic relief when his classmate blurted: “Marcus, you look like Michael Jackson!” My husband scolded me for making him wear that hat because he pointed out early on that the hat was more of MJ’s than Rizal’s.
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Wordless Wednesday: The Best Nanay and Lola in the Whole World

Allow me not be wordless today as I wanted to take this opportunity to spread to the whole blogosphere my gratefullness for our Nanay (filipino term for mother) who’s celebrating her birthday today.

Nay, I love you so much and I thank you for everything wornderful you have done for me, my son, Marcus, and the rest of teh family. You are the best and will remain the best Nanay and Lola in the whole world!

birthday mom and lola

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A Little Cowboy’s Dream

Some time ago, I was asked by a reader of this blog to design an online newsletter for her website selling different apparels. Although I was not familiar with designing using html or scripts, I was excited with the idea of putting a newsletter together for her site, both the writing and designing aspects of it.

Among her products are bikers’ and cowboys’ apparels. The designs made me remember my little boy’s fondness for equestrian apparel as he really wanted to become a cowboy when he was three or four year-old. He was given a black vest by his grandmother and he wear it even in his sleep. We had to eventually tell him the vest was lost so he would give it a rest.

Even as a young boy, he already loved horses and he would ride carousels so he can feel how it is to be a cowboy. For this reason, I promised myself I would bring him to Baguio someday so he can ride a real horse. So I did, and so did he. :D

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baguio horse ride

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Love Versus Infatuation. Know if it is really Love that Struck You.

Love withers with predictability; its very essence is surprise and
amazement. To make love a prisoner of the mundane is to take its passion and lose it forever. Leo Buscaglia

    Love Versus Infatuation

All of us dream of a happy ending. Canned fairy tale love affairs coupled with castles, knight in shining armors and chivalrous and romantic heroes. I had my share of these dreams. I stared night after night at the ceiling of my cramped bedroom starry-eyed and looking at an imaginary falling star silently praying that my prince will come and save me from being loveless…
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