Is There a Guide for WannaBe Parents?
A Crash Course in Parenting
Funny that while many of my friends’ ultimate dream were to get married and have kids, I was thinking otherwise.
When I was still single, I had a very close male friend who would go to the extent of writing notes in my school notebooks the words “no to PMS.” PMS is pre-marital sex and he was doing that to urge me change my mind on my view on marriage and relationships.
Although I was quite a liberal, my being liberated goes to some extent only and even if I was vocal about my being a pro-PMS and no-to-marriage gal, I was afraid of actually having sex. (Don’t worry, this post is not rated R.)
I guess that among the factors why I was afraid of it was my fear of getting pregnant. I’ve always thought it would be very difficult to be a parent, lot of responsibilities and… lots of everything actually. I’ve always said, “I’m not ready to be a wife, nor, a mother.” But really, is there a course where we can be emotionally, physically, spiritually, mentally, and financially prepared to become a parent?
What I’m sure right now, after being a mother for five years for Marcus, is that my mom was right: “You’ll never really understand being a Parent until you BECOME ONE.”
To all Parents out there, Happy Valentines Day! I have surprised my Nanay and Mommmy (my mother-in-law) with sweet cakes this morning. For you guys, here is my gift — a funny but heartwarming and inspiring Resume of an Applicant for a Wanna-Be Parent from the book One Day at a Time by my favorite motivator, Francis J. Kong.














